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Very often, parents are upset, annoyed and angry when they help their child learn homework. The emotions of children at this time are also not very positive. The child begins to get nervous, ceases to understand what they want from him, is afraid if adults shout at him and threaten him with punishment.

When managing the educational process, parents make mistakes that subsequently spoil family communication, reduce motivation for learning, and alienate children and adults from each other. How to help a child learn and is it worth it? You can find answers in this article.Many experts believe that mom and dad should not interfere in the learning process, as well as professional case study writers, because the constant use of the author is not a good idea, although sometimes it is necessary. However, not all parents can follow this rule. When a child goes to first grade, adults worry more about what awaits him at school and whether he will get used to the learning process. Because of their own anxiety, parents make the following mistakes:

do homework for the child if he says that he is tired or does not want to do his homework;
go to the class teacher every day to find out how the child answered, how he communicated with peers, or learned the material;
they take diary entries and bad grades too seriously - the child is punished, deprived of their joy and communication.
This attitude to the student's school life is explained by the fact that parents experience increased anxiety in relation to the school. Perhaps they themselves suffered from the unfair treatment of parents or teachers, they were afraid to put the; home, because they knew that they would have to suffer because of this, they were used to being diligent students first, and then children - according to their desire, feelings and needs.

Anxiety of adults about learning is transferred to children, relationships between family members deteriorate. What should be done to avoid this?

the child must be considered as a person and only then as a student;
School is the child's responsibility. Adults should no longer worry about how you prepared the lessons, whether you collected a portfolio, what kind of relationship you have with classmates.
If parents control these processes too much, the child can become addicted. The easier it is for them to relate to what is happening in their school, and instead they have more fun together and communicate as close friends, the better the child will feel, which means that he will have a good mood for learning.